i use to think that relationships exist because we need someone to care for us, to love us, etc etc..but there is lot of expectations involved too and when they does not get satisfied you are left alone.. will you call it love then?
relationship without expectations ..i think don't exist anymore.there are very few cases where unconditional love exist. and as u said that in relationship u need smeone who can love , care etc.....even all this qualify for expectations....n i don't see any harm in expecting love, care, attention etc in relationship...well its a dynamic process practically...
i also do believe in expectin in a relatnship bt when it takes place of possesivnes it starts irritatn the odr person..i think evrythin is fine if its within limits..
it is very difficult to love someone without expectations.....when u love someone u do expect dt yr partner also care for your feelings...and when u dont gt back dt care n affection..u get upset...bt dt doesnt reduce the amount of love u have for dt person..u still feel like loving yr partner
relationship without expectations ..i think don't exist anymore.there are very few cases where unconditional love exist. and as u said that in relationship u need smeone who can love , care etc.....even all this qualify for expectations....n i don't see any harm in expecting love, care, attention etc in relationship...well its a dynamic process practically...
ReplyDeletei also do believe in expectin in a relatnship bt when it takes place of possesivnes it starts irritatn the odr person..i think evrythin is fine if its within limits..
ReplyDeleteit is very difficult to love someone without expectations.....when u love someone u do expect dt yr partner also care for your feelings...and when u dont gt back dt care n affection..u get upset...bt dt doesnt reduce the amount of love u have for dt person..u still feel like loving yr partner
ReplyDeleteyes...it is true..when u don't ger back dat care, love....it hurts u a lot........bt it does't reduce ur love and care for ur partner or frnd....
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